From a small question
to a shared moment.
Illustrative examples of our iPhone experience, with sample words and plans. This is a guided preview; it doesn’t save answers or send anything to a partner.
The same question.
Both of your voices.
We offer one question for your couple each day. You each answer in your own time, without seeing what your partner wrote first.
Once you’ve both answered, reveal your words side by side. The exchange becomes a moment you can revisit in your Journal.
Your answer stays hidden from your partner until both answers are in.
When did we feel most like a team this week?
When we made dinner together after that long day.
That evening too. I liked that we stayed in the kitchen talking.
A small idea for what matters today.
Browse personal ideas on Today. For something else on your mind, tell us what’s happening and what you’d like. We’ll offer three ideas for that moment.
Choose one to try, save it for later, or turn it into a plan.
Your request and ideas stay private. Nothing is sent to your partner when you ask for ideas.
A busy week. A little time for us.
“We’ve barely had time together. I’d like a quiet evening at home.”
Choose a familiar meal and make it together.
Sit together for a few minutes after dinner.
Pick a song you both remember and talk about that time.
Make room for it.
Leave room for each other.
Keep a personal plan for yourself, or propose something to do together. You choose the words and time before sharing.
Your partner can agree, suggest a change, or pass. Incoming proposals stay separate from the plans you’ve both agreed to.
Sharing a plan shares the proposal you choose to send. Your private request for ideas stays yours.
A walk after dinner
Saturday · 7:30 pm · Together
A little time outside, with no errands along the way.
Let’s make it 8, after we’ve eaten.
Keep the part you’ll want to remember.
Revisit shared daily answers and moments together. Add a memory in your own words, with a photo if you’d like.
After a shared plan, each of you can add your own detail. An ordinary evening has a place to stay.
Shared Journal entries are for both of you. Personal notes have their own private space.
The long way home
Saturday evening · A walk together
We took the long route and stopped to watch the lights on the water.
I’d forgotten how much I like walking without somewhere to get to.